my old next whore neighbor

When my first husband took up with the next door neighbor and then married her, it occurred to me that she just completely wanted to “steal” my life.  I felt slighted by both of them because I knew her as well.  I was an emotional mess from years of mental abuse and lies.  I could not see clearly then what I have learned in the last 5 years, it was a blessing.

I have refrained from blogging about my ex-husband, his messes, etc.  I have done so partly for my own sanity and partly out of respect for my son’s privacy.  However, it has been difficult and now this new information is too juicy for me to hold in.

Because I’m purchasing a house and have mortgage lenders and brokers going over my finances with a fine tooth comb, and because I had a foreclosure on my record from the ex-husband’s cheating ways in the year 2001, they did a search on my name and any names associated with mine in the last ten years.

Let it be known that my ex-husband’s big ass house that he paid too much money for in 2005 with my previous next whore neighbor, is in foreclosure.  He was also recently arrested for writing a Trampoline Trust Fund check.  IE: An insufficient funds check in the amount of $4,000.  He also has a judgment against him for over $40,000 that appears to be from someone business related.  That business he had that had the fancy signs…is now defunct.  Things are falling apart in his life again and I’m glad I’m no longer married to him to experience that world yet again.

I thought I would rejoice at his inevitable downfall.

I actually feel bad for him and am concerned for my son.  I even called him and told him I would do anything I could to assist in anything Keith needs.

He claims they are doing a re-org and everything is fine, but he’s a habitual liar too.  So who knows anything for sure.  Funny that I have accepted who he is, and it no longer affects me so acceptance is easier.  I no longer hate or loathe him. 

But for her….I would love to be able to say “thanks for taking my nightmare, I appreciate it.  You wanted to steal my life, congratulations you now officially have it.”

I close on my house tomorrow at 3 p.m.

Irony.