I realize that since I met Rick (Jan 03) I have:
- Not bounced any checks
- Not had any late fees anywhere for anything
- managed to keep money in savings once it’s deposited into savings
- only received one late notice and that was because I paid a bill on the day it was due and the notice crossed in the mail
- budgeted for my car insurance, therefore not been surprised by big bills
- Moved 5 times and then…
- Purchased a house (by myself) and my combined mortgage, insurance and taxes are coming in at only $5.46 more than our previous lease/rent amount (this will go down next year when our house officially is considered homesteaded and the taxes go down)
- Maintained a very respectable g.p.a. while also holding down a full time job
- Increased my personal income by 28%
- Purchased and paid off my vehicle
- Purchased 4 laptops…I am not easy on laptops, or else I keep getting the lemons!!
- Received a college education for free (no, no parents paid for it and it wasn’t a scholarship and it is an accredited college)
- Increased my horrific credit score (351 thanks to the criminal ex-husband) to it’s current 725
- Purchased at least 500 more books since I purchase about 100 per year
- Gained a slew of nephews and a slew of great in-laws
- Obtained a new pet, Chloe…
- Watched my son turn into a bright young man
- Verbally forgiven my ex-husband
- Stopped crying myself to sleep at night
- a great feeling of personal empowerment
I think I’ll keep Rick. I love you honey and could not be the person I am today without you.

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