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November, 2009

  1. Gringa – Melissa Hart

    November 18, 2009 by shishnit

    I haven’t quite figured out how to announce that I’ve become the official book reviewer for The Brandon Gazette over here on my blog. However, today I had the priviledge of having my first author interview published and I’m thrilled about it because I loved the book.  I am posting the original review from The Brandon Gazette here below.  But you can check out my new writing gig!  The one I haven’t quite announced here until now!!

    Also, you’ve just got to read this book!  It’s fantastic.

      

    Gringa: A Contradictory Girlhood – Melissa Hart(Memoir) Seal Press

    I love this book! Buy it; read it, I’m sure you will love it too.  If I haven’t convinced you yet, keep reading…First they were a normal family in the 1970’s, living happily in Southern California.  And then they become fractured and multiplied and Melissa Hart has to flip flop herself between her father’s lavish lifestyle with his new wife, her stepmother, and her mother’s bohemian lifestyle in a Hispanic neighborhood.  These influences shape her as she grows, but during that shaping and molding there is a push and pull within her to learn and determine where she fits in the world.  And isn’t that always largely based on how you were raised and your cultural influences. 

    I love this book! Buy it; read it, I’m sure you will love it too.  If I haven’t convinced you yet, keep reading…First they were a normal family in the 1970’s, living happily in Southern California.  And then they become fractured and multiplied and Melissa Hart has to flip flop herself between her father’s lavish lifestyle with his new wife, her stepmother, and her mother’s bohemian lifestyle in a Hispanic neighborhood.  These influences shape her as she grows, but during that shaping and molding there is a push and pull within her to learn and determine where she fits in the world.  And isn’t that always largely based on how you were raised and your cultural influences. During her parents divorce a judge determines that her lesbian mother and her lover are not good influences on Melissa and her siblings and therefore Melissa, to her chagrin, ends up living with her father and wishing desperately she was with her mother, who she can closer relate to throughout the years. 

    Melissa’s frank language, honest re-telling, and innate comical mind make this book so much more than the above two paragraphs can parlay.  I picked this book up and did not put it down.  I devoured it in one sitting, staying up into the wee morning hours doing so.  I cheered Melissa on, and frowned at the judge’s determination and remembered fondly things from my own childhood.  Melissa’s penchant for recall of time and place and her ability to put you there made this book a trip to a different time and place.  This memoir reads like fiction, not because the authenticity is not there, but rather because Melissa’s retelling is not a factual list you must read but rather a story you become a part of.

    This book was enchanting, engrossing and more so happily entertaining.  There are lessons to be garnered here as Melissa finds her way, but the real joy in this story is the value of family, the realization that we all belong…somewhere.  In this memoir there exists a strong confident female voice.  This would be an especially fantastic gift to give a college aged girl to read as she navigates through her newly found freedom and realizes she has many choices in life. 

    Her book is available at most retail booksellers and at Seal Press who so kindly provided the book to be reviewed at The Brandon Gazette. 

    Many thanks to the publishers at The Brandon Gazette for allowing me to fully maintain ownership of the reviews and articles I write.  They are fantastic! 


  2. praised

    November 13, 2009 by shishnit

    I spend the majority of my time trying to work towards being something more. I am in college, always writing, reading and readying myself for some unknown opportunity that I’m hopeful will come.  I am hard on myself, I am working on myself, I am molding myself. I am a work in progress and I’m always focused on the work that yet remains. I NEVER blog about work, except to say I go to work.  That’s a given.  However, recently a new position was posted and it’s gotten a lot of buzz, mostly because most of the people I work with have far far less seniority or “time in” than I do. The average is 2 years. I’ve been working at the same company for over 5 years. There hasn’t been much growth within the company in the past 2 years so it’s nice to see some changes and  job additions lately. I am often hard on myself, push myself, and rarely do I ever let up….I feel I’ve wasted a decade of my life being lost…and I need to make up for it.  I never stop and realize how much I’ve done for myself in the last 5+ years.  

    Recently one of my co-workers asked me about the buzz gaining job etc.  She’s hopeful that our collective boss will apply for that job so that I can apply for our boss’s job and in essence be her boss.  This had to be one of the most flattering emails I’ve ever received.  Not just that she thinks I can do the job but that she would want me to be her boss..and not because we’re pals, we’re not…just because she respects me. I suppose I’ve learend something in all these management courses afterall.    

    She wrote me an email that stated:  

    From: Michelle

    Sent: Thursday, November 12, 2009 6:35 PM

    To: Kristy

    Yeah I was just wondering if you thought J. might go for it and then maybe you could be the ops manager! J  From: Kristy

    Sent: Thursday, November 12, 2009 6:36 PM

    To: Michelle 

    She may go for it……lol you want me to be your boss???  Really??? From: Michelle

    Sent: Thursday, November 12, 2009 6:37 PM

    To: Kristy

    Yes really, I think that you are fair, even tempered, and intelligent enough to make a great manager. I’m sure there’s lots more to it than that but every employee should feel like they are treated fair and that their boss has an even temper and is smart enough for the job.
     


  3. passion

    November 12, 2009 by shishnit

    My 89 yr old grandfather reads the newspaper from front to back every single day. Now of course he’s reading a small-town paper, but still! Every word! (even the classifieds and the lost dog ad’s…all of it, he knows all the town news!) He then spends the majority of his day’s reading books. He can go through about 3 a day sometimes. He watches 1 hour of the news on TV every single day at noon. Then it’s back to reading. So his day goes “newspaper, read, news, read read read, sleep”.

    He’s almost completely deaf in his old age and screams and yells in order to communicate. My grandmother begs him to get a hearing aid. NO GO he says. He does not want to “look” old. (smirk)

    However, a few years ago his eyesight started to go wonky and he immediately visited an eye doctor and scheduled in cataract surgery asap, within a week both eyes were done. When asked why he won’t get a hearing aid but he’s willing to allow doctors to cut his eyes, he replied with his typical scream:

    “Because damn it I need to see to read and if I can’t read I don’t care what anyone has to say!”

    My grandfather is my hero.


  4. Bird Eating Bird by Kristin Naca (review)

    November 10, 2009 by shishnit

    Let me reveal a secret, I personally love poetry and find that when I read it, it can serve as an escape from the stresses of this world.  As if you didn’t know this? But this occurs especially when you read a volume that is so liquid and beautiful like “Bird Eating Bird”.  The best way to describe how beautiful this volume is, is to refer you to an image in your mind of beautiful birds lined up on a wire.  This image is how I relate to this book.  It’s beautiful, awe inspiring and a gift when you encounter a wire line of birds chirping at the beginning of a new dawn. Kristin Naca can weave a sentence like a snake-charmer can coax a snake from a basket, fluidly and with a skill that makes the process look so easy.  This book touches on culture, is written both in Spanish and in English, but don’t fear that if you are not bilingual you will not appreciate this one, as it is in full English on one side, Spanish on the opposite page.  However, if you are bilingual you will love this one.  It’s got a flow and rhythm throughout that makes me see colors and feel vibrant with it’s ode to Asian and Latino styles and flairs.  Naca’s poems are lyrical on the page, a dance for any reader’s soul to swirl with. 

    “Once a bird pecked her  lover’s hand With such sincerity that she lost 

    Hold of the seeds she secretly tossed,  To keep all the birds at her command” 

     

      

    Can be purchased from http://www.harpercollins.com/authors/35596/Kristin_Naca/index.aspx who so kindly provided a review copy.


  5. de-puzzling the difficult task of dinner – the easy way!

    November 10, 2009 by shishnit

    First I blog followed Jen and then somewhat, much too much later maybe, I blogmet her wonderful husband, Brandon via his blog. (yes blogmet is a word…now!) Well Brandon seems to love to cook for Jen which is sweet because Jen deserves it! However, since they got married and he’s been cooking up a storm and blogging about it, Brandon has been inspiring me to cook. (ha…that takes a lot of inspiration sometimes!)

    The other day I saw this item in a magazine…with a suggestion to add it to mashed potatoes.

    Philadelphia spinach & artichoke cream cheese

    (not my photo)

    So…..because I was inspired to cook something….I whipped up some mashed potatoes…

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    Then I dumped in half a container of the Philadelphia Spinach and Artichoke cream cheese in there (whipped it a bit before adding the hot potatoes actually!).  And then because MEN are often the better cook in the marriage, Rick grilled up some chicken breasts on the gas grill and I threw in some canned corn into the microwave and voila…..this is how we roll at my house.  Thanks for the inspiration to get in the kitchen and throw things around more often Brandon.  I must must just print out those recipes you’ve been so kind to type out despite your crazy busy schedule and do some REAL cooking Brown style.

    Yum dinner!

    It’s so fantastic when Rick and I get together to do something collectively.  I bought him this puzzle for his birthday and we put it together in about a week. (whew….all those faces…so so hard to puzzle!) It’s a Charles Fazzino puzzle, very great artwork to stare at for hours upon hours while puzzling!

     

    Fazzino Puzzle


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