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2010 baby! Bring it!!

Have you given thought to your New Year’s Resolutions?  I have.  I’m a big fan of having a list of goals because when you write it down it becomes tangible and for me it becomes doable and causes me to be accountable. There is wishful thinking and then there is “real goals” with measurable tasks to reach them.

My first goal is to get my personal paperwork at home in order.  They have changed the guidelines for Driver’s License renewals due to the 9-11 fiasco of how those so called pilots got ID via a Floridian license without really any real documentation.  That’s about to change for us Floridians.  So, due to those changes coming up I decided to be proactive and finally get a handle on my personal paperwork and put it all in the same place and to get a fireproof box to ensure their safety and quick retrieval. 

My other goal is to “Live in the NOW” and forget about the past.  It’s gone and over and I want to be more present in my life moving forward.  There is no future in the past so why let it bother me today?  NOW is what matters.  I also want to live fearlessly.  I want to not fear challenges in my life.  They are really opportunities for personal growth if you think about it.  This is my biggest goal really.  The rest are important but are more of a “checklist” than a work for it, be it, live it type of goal.


So anyway that’s 2 goals.  My third goal is to read at least 1 classic novel for each month in the year of 2010.  I was shocked this year upon reading a list of classic novels to realize that despite all of my hardcore reading efforts, I have read very few of the classics.  I have yet to pick my 12 books but I am open to suggestions so long as they are true classic novels…you know…like Moby Dick, Peter Pan, Pride & Prejudice, etc etc.  Let’s avoid War and Peace because dang I don’t think I can read 1296 pages in one month alone.  At the end of 2010 I want to be able to say I read a dozen classics throughout the year. This is a small number for a girl who read 52 books in one year…but with my Master’s program and a full time job and my book review column…this will be a challenge.


My 4th goal for 2010 is to plan more outings and events with my husband and/or son. When Mama has a plan, we end up doing more exciting things than the norm.  I want to go to the Strawberry Festival, perhaps to a museum, etc. etc. etc. 


My 5th and final goal is a career goal is to be professional, be a team player always mindful of teamwork and to take ownership of my job tasks and duties. I cannot change certain things but I can make my job tasks happen with excellence!!  More importantly I want to work on being NICE.  Not just nice on good day’s..nice all the time.  I think I am nice, but I do know that if I have a bad day, sometimes nice goes out the door for a mere “get it done” approach and when I get busy getting things done I often forget to be nice.  And that’s wrong. I’m going to work on being present in the now and being nice at the same time as being professional.  I am also continuing to work on being assertive, something I initiated in 2009 and will continue.


The paperwork and classic novel reading…those are just asides.  The important thing to me is to make 2010 a great year.  All of these goals might require a few cups of coffee and a lot of motivation, but do please notice I didn’t plan to exercise, lose weight or give up coffee!!! Hahahahahaha!!!  I like my goals to be doable and ensure happiness! So in short….


1.    Paperwork in order

2.    Live in the NOW fearlessly!

3.    Read a dozen classic novels

4.    Plan more outings and events with family

5.    Professional, Teamwork, Ownership and NICE

What are YOUR goals in 2010????  You don’t have to share…but I’d love to be nosy and know.

 

Happy New Year….Happy New Decade!!! Thanks for being a nice part of my 2009…my wonderful half a dozen blog readers. I really do pay attention to you.


 

Filed under : life, goals
By shishnit
On December 31, 2009
At 8:52 pm
Comments : 3
 
 

NOW fearless! It’s the new ‘10…

As each year ends I always start to plan for what I want to accomplish the next year.  Sometimes I manage to blog my thoughts, but mostly I don’t.  This year I attempted to “have more fun” and to “live with an attitude of grattitude”.  After an entire year of learning to love all that is, regardless of what is.  I have a new understanding for grattitude. I work for a University fulltime and get paid more now than I ever did in my past careers  and they are also paying for my entire graduate program that totals up to over 25k. I’m blessed. I’m working one job and also have straight A’s.  I’m happily married; my son is relatively happy and completely healthy.  My dog doesn’t shed and loves me madly.  I am getting free books sent to me in the mail on a weekly basis and I’m finding time to read them and then review them with my first official writing gig.  I own a house five minutes from the beach. My car is paid off.  I’m not laid off and it’s not snowing in Florida.  My husband still loves me and that’s something I never take for granted.  Rick is also still working and still faithful and the latter is something I never question but I pray daily that he can maintain the job he loves and we can live our slightly boring, often off kilter, crazy busy lives without a financial hitch. 

I have so so much to be grateful for, but I really think it’s a result of my being intuned with the good things and trying desparately hard to ignore the things that have irritated me often this year.  The latter I often ignored so much I barely blogged it.  I’m proud of myself for not giving my energy to negativity this year as often as I managed to obstain. 

Next year, I hope to maintain because the things I am maintaining this year have been blessings.  I’m increasingly happy about being happily married, being happy to come home and being happy in my own skin.  I’m happy with who I am, what I’m doing and more importantly I’m happy with what I am learning and the path that I am on.  However, next year I believe one of my biggest things to work on will be not looking back.  I spend a lot of time looking back and trying to decipher where I went wrong, how I could have changed things, what I might have avoided if I knew then what I know now.  It’s a worthless time waster because I didn’t know then what I know now and I did as well then as I knew how to do then with the person that I was then.

That was then.

This is now.

I want to forget then and live in the now.  I believe I’m early on this but as 2009 is heading for it’s finish line I am happy with how my year went.  I’m thrilled with my newfound confidences in my own abilities and I want to continue to be more and more fearless and in order to be fearless, I must let go of the past.

Year 2010’s buzzwords….NOW NOW NOW…FEARLESS!!  Oh and sprinkle that with a bit of “pay off debt and save more!” and the new slice of ‘10 cake is perfect.

Filed under : goals
By shishnit
On December 22, 2009
At 11:36 pm
Comments :1