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  1. stressy day

    December 18, 2008 by shishnit

    Is there such a thing as a stressy day?  What would it then be called if it turned into two consecutive days? 

    First the dryer stopped getting hot yesterday.  Second break in less than a month.  The repairmen are here now looking at it while I stress about what it might be. 

    Then the crappy virtical blinds that came with the house (brand new in April) broke in the living room. I really rather hate the look of virtical blinds but those blinds were saving me from having to make “window covering” decisions.  They were also saving my wallet from having to buy “window coverings”.   Everything I look at is confusing or expensive and I really am sick of blinds but this is Florida where the sun needs to be blinded so that we’re not.

    Ahhh…….I need a new heating element for the dryer, which they don’t have with them, it’ll be about $80 to $90.  Merry Christmas to me!!!

    Ahhhh homeownership….I miss having a landlord to call and bitch at….really only because I really need to de-stress.  The bug guy’s coming tomorrow to spray the house….the dryer repairmen are coming to fix the dryer and I have a hair appointment at 5 tomorrow……

    all on my f’n day off.  I need some stiff coffee…….ha..does such a thing exist??

    Does anyone have any good ideas about window coverings. I’m thinking of doing some bamboo window blinds that can be moved up and down (cheap from Walmart) with panels on the exterior sides hung from ceiling to floor to make the room look bigger.  *sigh*  I should have taken a design course in college.

    I need a hug…..


  2. home sweet home

    December 16, 2008 by shishnit

    Because sometimes I spend my time mindlessly in an effort to pass time, I often go to www.realtor.com and look at the houses that are for sale. I enjoy this passtime because I used to look with the intent to dream.  Then I spent three months looking with the intent to find something in my price range. Now with the onslaught of foreclosures, I look because I am amazed at what I see.  Houses that were going for upwards of $150,000 and $200,000 are now selling (or trying to sell rather) around $65,000 to $95,000.  It’s sad how many homes that are for sale that have had all the appliances ripped out and in some cases even the in tile toilet paper holder has been damaged.  It takes a lot to damage those things.   The more I look the more I realize that we are living not only in economic crisis but in a time of much anger and hopelessness.

    When I think about my timing in purchasing a house I am often left in disbelief.  Two months after I secured an FHA loan, they changed the terms on them.  The change in terms would have meant I could not purchase my house.  In the past if one party had good credit in a marriage then that one party could purchase a house, they have changed that now and both parties better have outstanding credit no matter what or you’re not buying a house…any house. 

    Now some of the pricing is lower than when I purchased in April (8 months ago) but the credit crisis means that most people can’t obtain the loan or credit that they need, so it’s not really a good deal. I see a lot of really great houses that have more of the features I was shopping for back in April but I cannot see how I could have made it work now.  There is so much chaos surrounding home purchasing now that did not exist back in April.  I knew the prices had dropped in April but at that time I did not know how much lower they would go.  I can’t look at the bargain prices now and see them as a bargain.  I also notice that many of the houses that seem to be bargains come with an “as is” aside.  They also don’t come with an owner willing to pay closing costs or make repairs.  The owners of these so called bargains are angry and depressed and trying to save their own asses before the house gets foreclosed on.  Many of the propertys I looked at in April are now advertised for short sale and or as “bank owned”. 

    Looking at the real estate listings is akin to poking yourself in the eye these days.  Painful. It’s like looking at people’s lives falling apart. I always wonder who lived in these houses, how long they lived there, how much money they spent on that property. It’s like an exercise in futility to own a home that you eventually lose.  I think about the lives that are affected.  It happened to me once, I can relate and I feel sad.

    There are a handful of houses that I looked at seriously back in April that I really loved and yet they were out of my price range.  Those houses are rock bottom dirt cheap now.  In some cases a bit cheaper than the house I bought.  In other cases, quite a bit cheaper.  I suppose I look at the listings because I want to know when the bleeding and loss of value will end.  Will my house still be worth what it is now in another year?  Will homeless people be arguing over street corners soon?  The house beside me is for rent. It has been for rent since November 1st.  A lot of people stop by, they did some work to it and it appears to be a decent house. I have no idea how much the rent is but it’s still sitting there beside us, empty.

    Three years ago Rick and I looked at a house for sale right beside his brother’s house.  They wanted about $40,000 more than we paid for our house this year.  It was 1/3 the size.  In fact it was so small we discussed selling half of what we owned and living in that teensy house long enough to save money for a bigger house.  Thank b’jeezus we didn’t do that.  That house might sell today for $25,000.

    There are a few things that hold true today, 9 months after purchsaing our house.  I still love the house.  The price was right and we got a deal. Our house was remodeled and all the finishes were brand new.  I love that because when you purchase a house with intent to fix it up, somehow that doesn’t always happen and then you put up with or live with things you don’t like for far too long.

    Our house is not perfect, we have a new leak in one of the ceilings (small tiny leak only when it rains hard and steady for a while…we’ll fix it tho’), we don’t care for the job they did on the tile floor and the bathroom medicine cabinet/light fixture combo makes me insane.  Those are so minor it’s insane.  Overall I’m grateful that we bought when we did, and that 9 months later I am still happy with the deal we got.  Now please let us both keep our jobs and stay afloat during these sad times.  Every single day I get up and have a moment of thankfulness and hope…hope for things to improve for everyone.  I think we’re all living with a certain level of insecurity. 


  3. lunch, ikea, coffee & donuts….oh my!

    December 7, 2008 by shishnit

    This morning I got up and went to work. I dreaded going to work because I didn’t want to get up out of the warm bed and leave Rick behind. However, I managed. About a half hour before I was to leave work Rick called and asked me about my plans for the day. I cannot tell you how immensely happy this made me. He asked me what I might like to do with the day since we both were off, had some downtime to work with etc.

    I asked if we could go to Ikea. Now this is going to sound insane to some people, but this was my first trip to Ikea. The closest Ikea to us is in Orlando, over an hour away. He agreed and I was thrilled. We went out for lunch first, and then drove out to Orlando. The sky was pretty, sunny and blue.

    Ikea is a crapfest of disorganization however. I did buy a few cute things.

    A rug for the library

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    A rug for the kitchen

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    A giant welcome mat for in front of the front door outside

    Free Image Hosting at www.ImageShack.usAlso bought a few prints and a handful of cotton kitchen towels too. Ikea is fun, cheap…etc. However, that store gave me momentary stress. I was lost and I was overwhelmed. I have great ideas for decorating my house but when faced with too many choices I go berserk. Not to mention seeing something you like but having to walk half a mile to find it then. Rick and I enjoyed our trek there and spent a few hours browsing around. However….Ikea….you are badly managed. There’s surely a better way.

    After Ikea we stopped in at Krispy Kreme, (something we don’t have very close to our city) and had donuts and hot coffee and watched the donuts get all jammed up on the roller bars while the employees jacked around doing nothing.

    Today was good. We did nothing exciting and yet the sunshine…a beautiful day….my husband. So good. So sweet. I LOVE days like today. It’s late….I’m going to go crawl into bed with the man and get nice and warm.


  4. I realize that since I met Rick (Jan 03) I have:

    September 29, 2008 by shishnit

    • Not bounced any checks

       

    • Not had any late fees anywhere for anything

       

    • managed to keep money in savings once it’s deposited into savings

       

    • only received one late notice and that was because I paid a bill on the day it was due and the notice crossed in the mail

       

    • budgeted for my car insurance, therefore not been surprised by big bills

       

    • Moved 5 times and then…

       

    • Purchased a house (by myself) and my combined mortgage, insurance and taxes are coming in at only $5.46 more than our previous lease/rent amount (this will go down next year when our house officially is considered homesteaded and the taxes go down)

       

    • Maintained a very respectable g.p.a. while also holding down a full time job

       

    • Increased my personal income by 28%

       

    • Purchased and paid off my vehicle

       

    • Purchased 4 laptops…I am not easy on laptops, or else I keep getting the lemons!!

       

    • Received a college education for free (no, no parents paid for it and it wasn’t a scholarship and it is an accredited college)

       

    • Increased my horrific credit score (351 thanks to the criminal ex-husband) to it’s current 725

       

    • Purchased at least 500 more books since I purchase about 100 per year

       

    • Gained a slew of nephews and a slew of great in-laws

       

    • Obtained a new pet, Chloe…

       

    • Watched my son turn into a bright young man

       

    • Verbally forgiven my ex-husband

       

    • Stopped crying myself to sleep at night

       

    • a great feeling of personal empowerment

       

     I think I’ll keep Rick.  I love you honey and could not be the person I am today without you.


  5. I ordered a new bed for the new house…..

    June 23, 2008 by shishnit

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