posting here because I don’t want to lose this…these few paragraphs sometimes keep me sane. Rick and I are still together….I still remember you Joe.Â
Maximum Capacity
It is the natural order of things that a container can contain only so much. When it’s full, you can fit no more. A one-gallon jug holds one gallon, and no matter what you do you can’t fit two gallons into a one-gallon jug.
Ever been in a busy elevator? When the elevator stops there’s always some idiot trying to rush into the elevator without letting people out of the elevator first.
Everything has a maximum capacity. Hearts and minds are the same way.
It’s a scientific fact that if I read you a list of 20 nouns, you will only be able to remember 7 of them at once. If you remember an 8th that means you’ll have forgotten one of the others.
When you’re in love with someone, that person becomes like the sun. When you look at the sun, its brilliance blinds you to everything else. It’s only when you stop looking at the sun that everything else comes back into focus.
For whatever reason, for better or worse, it doesn’t look like he is going to pan out. Strange though it may seem, that’s a good thing. As your love and your sorrow fade away, it’s like emptying. As bad as that feeling is, that’s a good thing too. It’s only once you’ve emptied that you can start to fill again.
Just like the sun, once you turn your head, everything else comes back into focus. You’ll again see things you’d forgotten, and maybe see a few new things you never noticed.
If this love isn’t going to work out, then it’s good that things are ending. If he is not the one, then they deserve no space in your heart or mind. Clearing it away makes space for someone who does deserve it.
